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 14:51 | 9/Feb/2008 | 6 Comment(s)
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 14:49 | 29/Sep/2007 | 18 Comment(s)
You CAN ,yes only you CAN ....

The only thing You CAN do is....


 


You say, “I wish I could do that. But I can’t.” Sometimes the thing you desire seems most evasive and elusive to you. You may seem to think that you need money or something else that is external to you for you to be able to achieve your desire. And because this external thing is away from you and you don’t have it, you think that you are doomed because even that seems elusive. So you are stuck in a vicious circle. You accept that, you fear it.


But before you accept something that has absolutely no value to you, take another look. Fear is a thing we are conditioned to accept without question, yet it has absolutely no value. Next time you accept fear, ask yourself what value it really has for you. Escape is not a value. There is nowhere to run. Eventually, you will be found and you will have to face yourself. Running away from a problem is an idea that stems from the illusion that there is a you with a problem, and a you that can escape the you with the problem. Insane? Yep! The first step to getting out of a problem is knowing and accepting that you are the problem, and then you become the solution. Nothing outside changes, but as you change, a new outside replaces the old. The law of attraction and the law of cause and effect work this way.


For now, let us define capability. What is can?


Everyone has things that they can do now that they could not do before. You can now walk while as a child you could not. The ground never changed, but you did. You can now read while you once could not. The English language never changed, but you did. At one time, Bill Gates could not write software, now he can. The world did not change, Bill did. At one time, Jesus could not perform miracles, then he did. Miracles did not change, Jesus did. At one time the Buddha was not enlightened, then he was. The ways of the universe did not change, the Buddha did.


Do you get the picture? There are a million things that a person can do now that they could not do years ago. Why?


It is never those things that changed. What changed was the idea that this person had of himself or herself. Have you seen the movie The Matrix? When Neo changed his idea of himself, he was able to do the undoable. It is so with everyone.


So what is can? What is capability. It is nothing more than a shift in what you think you are. What You Really Are is a being with infinite possibilities. Everyone is. We are all literally an idea. As such, success is not something we can chase and get, it is something that we attract by the persons we become. We become those persons by changing the idea of what we think we are.


The problem is not with the world. The problem, if there is one, is with your recognition of yourself and your world. The way you perceive and interpret yourself and your world is a system. Change that system, through seeking new truths, and you change your world.


To put it in another way, on earth you are a being that has experiences. These experiences are determined by your thoughts, which are determined by your perceptions. And these experiences are experienced through perception. It is a cycle. The key here is that perception is a learnt system. You learnt your own way of perception as you grew up. Whatever you accepted as true from your parents, friends, teachers, and so on, is what builds your framework of perception. Perception is a learnt system. You learn it, and you can just as easily unlearn it. You unlearn it by replacing it with a new system, and you get a new system by seeking new truths from books, guides, your higher self, and so on. The world that you perceive is perceived differently by the next guy. We are all seeing an illusion, an interpretation of energy activity that we are the creators of. The Real world is seen through vision, not perception. And vision only comes when you finally drop all your judgement of what you see, when you let it tell you what it is instead of you saying what it is. But that is another story all together.


You are in charge of ‘can’, and no one else. People can tell you that you can’t, all day long, until they grow hoarse and lose their voices. It will have absolutely zero effect on you. Unless you accept it. What did you accept as a child? Do you like it? Then un-accept it. Change. Re-create yourself. Have a new idea of who you are!  


 


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 16:12 | 21/Sep/2007 | 14 Comment(s)
All about HAPPINESS

True Happiness

True happiness may be sought,
caught, or thought,
But never bought.

Happiness is the result of being
too busy to be unhappy.

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No one can define happiness.
You have to be unhappy to
understand it.

Genuine happiness is when a wife
sees a double chin on her husband's
old girlfriend.

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Happiness does not come from
what you have.
But what you are.

Happiness is where you find it
and seldom where you seek it.

Happiness is home brewed.

The surest path to happiness
is in losing yourself in a cause
greater than yourself.

 

 

The place to be happy is here,
the time to be happy is now,
the way to be happy is to
make others so

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 14:57 | 18/Sep/2007 | 13 Comment(s)
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Smile is a  gentle curve which can set a lot of things straight

 

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 11:03 | 12/Sep/2007 | 17 Comment(s)
Use these Myths

Wealth Fundamentals PackIf one person after another in a house is becoming unhealthy, then by donating a Full Hollow Yellow Pumpkin at any religious place, the whole family becomes free of the illness. Donate the pumpkin in the daytime. The effect will be felt within three days. 

If there is good earning but most of it gets wasted without any reason, donating sweet biscuits to birds in the morning will shield from this malefic effect. 

Whenever passing through the border of a place where bodies are buried or burned, drop a few copper coins when leaving. If you do not have copper coins, drop another metal coin on the ground or floor. The departed souls will never hurt you and your luck will never depart from you. 

If you feel tired and pressured in your mind or have a headache, then before sleeping put a glass of water on some table or stool near your head. Do not drink the water, but in the morning pour it at the base of some tree. Most of your troubles will vanish. 

If you feel fear from unknown things, wear a stainless steal bangle on your right arm. It will strengthen your will. 

If someone in a family has suicidal tendencies and much depression, puncturing their nose with a silver wire will keeps away such feelings. 

If someone always feels loneliness, taking a dip in a river or a bath in the rain or becoming wet with rain water is the best way to keep from such feelings. 

 
If a sudden downfall has come in life, using the bed sheet of the father is best for cooling the mind. 

Donating the first bread of one’s own food to a black dog keeps evil away from one’s family. If one feels that a departed person is looking upon you, speaking the truth will make the thing go away. 

Touching the feet of the parents in the morning and saying goodbye when leaving for work brings success in life. 

If all family members feel irritation while eating together or at home, keeping a black dog will bring prosperity and harmony into home. 

Making the sign of two fish above the main entrance of a house and seeing it before knocking on the door, ensures the safety of members in the home. A single fish must be avoided. 

When going out, seeing the two fish turns the day in one’s favor. Seeing a single fish gives loss. When going out, seeing a vessel filled with water ensures the success of one’s first thought. Thinking of a water vessel and two fish before driving gives security from accidents. 

Keeping solid Silver in the home is auspicious and raises the mental peace of the family members.
 Wealth Fundamentals Pack

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 16:26 | 8/Sep/2007 | 5 Comment(s)
Create Good Luck

Let's face it - everybody would love to win the lottery or hit a jackpot at a casino. Even if you don't gamble or even if you never play the lottery - chances are you would still like to win a million dollars or a big payday. Don't get me wrong I'm not encouraging you to go out and play the lottery or gamble. But I know that everybody would love to have a little more luck so I'm about to show you just how you can do that.

Luck isn't just about winning the lottery. Luck isn't about chance.

Believe it or not there is a method, a scientifically proven way to creating your own luck - and if you think you've been unlucky in the past - this method  will show you how to change your luck.

All you have to do is believe that you are lucky, and have a belief system that allows you to be lucky everyday.

Just about everyone I know has some ritual designed to increase luck and bring good fortune - myself included.

And I know many who will still touch wood when talking about the good fortune that they've had.

While these rituals may make you feel better - scientifically they probably have no impact on your luck.

Why not?

Because you create your own luck and now there is a study that proves this - one that was in a recent issue of Reader's Digest.

Researchers conducted a 10-year case study of 400 people ranging in age from 18-84 hoping to discover why some people are lucky and others are not. The results - you create your own luck based on how you think and how you see things - all of which you can learn to change. Once you change the way you think and the way you see things you will begin to create your own good luck and good fortune.

The more detailed results of this study found that lucky people are lucky because they seize opportunities, they create positive self-fulfilling prophecies and have a resilient attitude that allows them to turn bad luck into good luck by focusing on what went right, and how things could have been much worse - a process that allows them to be thankful for what happened and to look at the positive side of the situation.

If you're not doing any of the above then you may find that you have more "bad" luck than good luck.

You can begin to change your luck and create good luck by training your mind to be more positive, more optimistic, be aware of opportunities and believe that you can have good forutne.

Have an Open Mind

If you want to create your own good luck the first step is to have an open mind and this means that you take a closer look at opportunities - don't dismiss those things that seem coincidental. If you want to earn more möney and a friend suggests a potential investment - explore it - don't just dismiss it outright.

In his research, Richard Wiseman found that lucky people have more opportunities than those who are unlucky. To find out why - he gave those who were lucky and those who were unlucky - the same newspaper and asked them to tell him how many pictures were in the paper. He found that lucky people spent only a few seconds while unlucky people spent a few minutes.

Why?

Because on the second page of the newspaper was a note in big type saying: "Stop counting there are 43 photographs in the newspaper. Tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $250" Lucky people saw it and the unlucky people missed it. Why? Because unlucky people miss chance opportunities because they are too busy looking for something else - they're not open to possibilities and feel they have to do things a certain way. Lucky people will examine what is in front of them instead of just focusing on what they are looking for - they're more open minded to possibilities and are willing to do things a little differently.

Wiseman also found that lucky people added spice by changing their approach and changing their routines. They would change things every once in a while to try something new - again they were being more open to new possibilities.

  • Be open to all possibilities.
  • Try a different approach when you can.
  • Do things a little differently.

When you regularly do this you get your mind and subconscious mind to focus on finding ways to do things. That's when luck begins to come your way. It's all because your subconscious mind begins to create the situations for you to succeed. But this will only happen when you believe you can have good luck and when you believe that you can succeed. Start changing your luck today. Start believing that you can have what you want and good things will arrive.

Another important factor in creating good luck is how you see things and how you deal with setbacks or misfortunes - you know - those times when things didn't turn out as you had hoped. For example: in this recent study researchers found that athletes who won bronze medals were often more happy than those who won silver medals. Why? Because those who won bronze medals realized that if they had been a fraction of a second worse - they would not have received any medal. By contrast - those who won silver medals thought that if they had been a fraction of a second better - they would have won a gold medal.

Lucky people turn misfortune in their favor - they have the approach that goes like this: "Consider yourself lucky, it could have been worse if______ had happened." Whereas unlucky people will say "It's my bad luck that ____ happened."

This is what it mean by how you see things and what you focus on.

Change the way you see things. Consider yourself lucky. Everyday - think of how lucky you are in all areas of your life. By doing this you'll begin training the mind and subconscious mind to believe that you are lucky - and in the end - you'll attract more positive and lucky events into your life.

To prove his point, Wiseman convinced a large number of those in the Unlucky group to try doing things differently. Amazingly 80-percent of those who changed the way they did things, changed they way they saw things by focusing on the good fortune rather than the bad fortune, and became more open minded were not only happier and more satisfied with their lives - they had better luck.

It sounds so simple and it is - but for some people changing the way you do things, seeing possibilities and being more open minded when you're not used to doing this, focusing on the good fortune instead of the bad luck, changing your routines and trying a different approach is so different from what they are used to doing - that they simply can't change. Why? Because we are all creatures of habit - we get into a habit and we stick with it. Then the mind and subconscious mind get used to this habit and you can't change it with the snap of your fingers - it's not that easy. I wish it was - but it isn't.

So what do you do?

Start changing and breaking those habits. Train your mind and subconscious mind to start working for you by getting those great powers to move in a new direction.

Here's to your success!

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 13:29 | 8/Sep/2007 | 3 Comment(s)
Do yourself

 


This is an abstract of my 1st Blog on self hypnosis


Hypnosis is a modified condition of consciousness when the brain’s activities are lowered. Thus, this state gives a feeling of relaxation. And contrary to popular beliefs, you do not need to be guided by a trance master for you to experience hypnosis. As long as your mind operates at a frequency lower than the usual, hypnosis can be properly done.When the mind is subjected to hypnosis, it becomes open to suggestions. That is why it is used in various situations to maximize the effect


 


 


 


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 11:40 | 7/Sep/2007 | 8 Comment(s)
Answer like this...Nice ones

Not only our technical knowledge helps, but also the presence of mind and the
right answer at right time. Even if u don't know the answer for a question just
confuse the questioner

Question and the Answer given by Candidates oh sorry they are IAS Officers now.



Q.How can you drop a raw egg onto a concrete floor without cracking it?

A. Concrete floors are very hard to crack! (UPSC Topper)



Q.If it took eight men ten hours to build a wall, how long would it take four
men to build it?

A. No time at all it is already built. (UPSC 23 Rank Opted for IFS)



Q.If you had three apples and four oranges in one hand and four apples and three
oranges in the other hand, what would you have?

A. Very large hands.(Good one) (UPSC 11 Rank Opted for IPS)



Q. How can you lift an elephant with one hand?

A. It is not a problem, since you will never find ! an elephant with one hand.
(UPSC Rank 14 Opted for IES)



Q. How can a man go eight days without sleep?

A. No Probs , He sleeps at night. (UPSC IAS Rank 98)



Q. If you throw a red stone into the blue sea what it will become?

A. It will Wet or Sink as simple as that. (UPSC IAS Rank 2)



Q. What looks like half apple ?

A : The other half. (UPSC - IAS Topper )



Q. What can you never eat for breakfast ?

A : Dinner.



Q. What happened when wheel was invented ?

A : It caused a revolution.



Q. Bay of Bengalis in which state?

A : Liquid (UPSC 33Rank )



Interviewer said "I shall either ask you ten easy questions or one really
difficult question.



Think well before you make up your mind!" The boy thought for a while and said,
"my choice is one really difficult question."



"Well, good luck to you, you have made your own choice! Now tell me this. "What
comes first, Day or Night?"



The boy was jolted into reality as his admission depends on the correctness of
his answer, but he thought for a while and said,

"It's the DAY sir!"



"How" the interviewer asked,



"Sorry sir, you promised me that you will not ask me a SECOND difficult
question!"

He was selected for IIM!



"Technical Skill is the mastery of complexity, while Creativity is the master of
simplicity"


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 16:07 | 6/Sep/2007 | 7 Comment(s)
read these Myths if you got a car

You believe it or not but these are very mysterious and Interesting myths but found much true sayings.


A Navy Blue car generally has fewer accidents and the average breakdowns are less than other cars. 

A Green car usually proves very handy and never breaks down when they are most required. 

A Red car requires a lot of personal care, otherwise it is prone to accidents. 

A person feels like speeding while driving a Red car compare to cars of other colors. 

A Gray car, if it run smoothly for 6 months, will be a most loyal vehicle. It will serve you in the best way and will prove lucky for you. But if it does not suit you, within one month it will make you feel unhealthy and troubled. 

Red commercial vehicles are involved in more accidents and breakdowns than vehicles of other colors. 

A Brown or Off White vehicle brings accidents or much expenditure. If the Sun in one’s horoscope is weak, it will better to keep away from vehicles of this color. In a White car, a person feels peaceful but their glasses are brittle or joints of that car use to get more trouble. 

A Sky Blue car will never run properly, as it is more decorative than useful. 

If your car license Number is 1 or the total comes to 1 or 6, you, more than others, will escape if violating traffic laws. (Sum up all the numbers and word number then again sum up till they become single digits). 

If your car number is 9 or 8 then you may feel more aggressive while driving and find yourself often in violation of the law. To rectify this, write a small 1 or 2 in the lowest corner of the license plate, so that it cannot be seen. You will experience a change in your nature. 

If you are sitting in a car and there is lightning in the sky, remain inside car, which is the safest place. The car will keep you as safe as a mother keeps a baby in her arms. 

A car having tires wider and are coming out of the normal body line of car, surely ensures your caring towards it but such car do not remain with you, may be due to any reason, for long time or you will not use it as regular part of life. 

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 08:38 | 4/Sep/2007 | 4 Comment(s)
Turn your DREAMS to REALITY





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The mind does not make an appearance within physical reality, but the brain is based in physical reality, and likewise our dreams occupy the same space as the mind…..that is, no space at all.


 


The images that appear in dreams appear as “forms” in other realities and they are not restricted by our physical reality rules of time, space and growth. They involve the materialization of spontaneous constructions which would normally not occur in our physical world.


 


Dreams are a continuous flowing process which run continuously in the wide awake and the dream states.


 


While we are in the wide awake state they run subconsciously. The materializations we create in our dreams have no mass in our physical reality but may have the equivalent of mass in other realities.


 


In the dream state the personality is molded and changed via actions that do not exist in the physical universe. These dream based subjective events eventually manipulate physical matter and events for the individual concerned, depending upon how they have consciously or subconsciously programmed their dreams.


 


One persons dream affects another’s and that person is in turn affected by the neighbor’s dreams.


 


In many cases dreams (in slightly different formats) are shared by two or more people and in some cases close-knit communities have shared mass dreams.


 


SETH says that we have “mass” dreams that occur just above the level relating to the collective unconscious. If we are able to tune in to these dreams (and some individuals can) we would gain an impression of what our society is collectively dreaming…..which would then give us an indication of future events, as our dreams format our future, both individually and collectively.


 


Sometimes these collective dreams contain enough power to significantly alter the future, for better or for worse. It is interesting to note that the dreams of one very powerful individual can affect the dreams of thousands of other people and this type of individual is capable of becoming a leader or “Guru”.


 


They generally become known in the dream state first and are recognized in the physical world later.


 


Through very intense emotional focus you can create a form then project it to another person who may then perceive it. This may be done consciously or unconsciously. The presence of this form can now be detected by sensitive scientific instruments.


 


During the dreaming state your awareness is focused in another reality that is in every way as permanent and valid as the physical reality universe. During sleep only a small amount of your energy is focused in the physical field…..enough to maintain the bodily functions only.


 


The dream universe is also composed of a molecular structure, but takes up no space as we know it. It is continuous but your awareness of it is normally limited to your sleep/dreaming periods.


 


The events in the dream reality are as meaningful as the events in your physical world and indeed are interrelated. One affects the other…..and vice versa. This is why it is possible (and extremely easy) to program up dreams which have an almost immediate effect in your physical universe.


 


One of the easiest and most effective types of dream that you can pre-program relates to your physical health. Sometimes a correctly programmed dream can cause almost miraculous improvements to your health in as little as 12 hours.


 


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